In the “Copy Cat” sex game we pay attention to what our partner is doing and then we mirror this. When she kisses you softly, you kiss her softly. When he holds you tight, you hold him tight.
There is a certain “Law of Sex”, which states that we always make love to someone in the way we would like this someone to make love to us. With this game you actively use this law to give your partner a very special experience. This is how it is done:
This is a game in which you dont discuss with your partner what you are doing. This is not dishonest, because you do it for mutual pleasure, and telling what you do would only make her self-conscious, and cause her to behave differently.
Pay attention to every detail, and mirror it back to her. For example:
-If she holds you by putting her hands on your lower back, you also put your hands on her lower back.
-If she moves slowly and deliberately, you also slow down and do the same.
-When she kisses, and sticks her tongue deep in your mouth, you stick out your tongue too.
-When she makes love to you roughly, you dont touch her gently, but just as rough.
-When she is quiet, you are quiet, and when she begins to moan, you also become vocal.
-When she talks dirty to you, talk back dirty.
Do not exaggerate the first time you do this, just pick out some details and mirror them back to her. If you would mirror everything back, and you are a good actor, she might sense what you are doing, and it would be less natural. Slowly and smoothly introduce the “Copy Cat” sex game into your bedroom.
In long-term relationships we often play this game sub-consciously, and get used to how our partner wants to enjoy her sex. But bringing this game to a conscious level speeds up this process. By the way, if she ever notices what you do, simply admit what you are doing; explain what you do and that you do it for your mutual pleasure.
Getting in the habit of playing the “Copy Cat” game will help you get to know your partner much better sexually. When you pay attention to details, you can “play her like a violin” and make some good music together